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  1. At this very moment in time there will be loads of people thinking of attending a yoga class and for a 101 reasons. Their doctor might have told them to find some healthy activity that's not too taxing; they may have read about how yoga can make them feel more toned and flexible; they may be ready to try something new; they may have a health condition they believe yoga can help with or they may simply feel stressed out or full of anxiety from over work or family pressures and crave some "me time".

    Obstacles to Attending a Yoga Class

    Some pluck up the courage to book a class and throw themselves into the experience but some hold back not knowing what to expect or cry out "I'm not flexible enough to do yoga!" Well here's news for the latter, you dont have to flexible to start yoga and that can be a reason for taking up classes. In fact very few who start yoga are flexible and , even if you never feel that flexible which you probably will, it doesn't matter because there are many bye products on the yoga journey that can often be more beneficial than mere flexibility.

    What to expect at your first class

    For those who don't know what to expect here's a suggestion: ring up the studio, ask to speak to the teacher and ask him/her exactly what to expect if you attend one of their classes. What you want to hear apart from time, place, cost and what to wear etc is what happens at the start of the class, throughout the class and at the end. How much effort will you be expected to put in. You may want to know if the teacher delivers a style that could run you ragged or just gently challenge you. If they give you information using unpronouncable words ask them what they mean! Will you get the chance to stretch yourself even if only a little and will you have the chance to cultivate your powers of relaxation. Are there beginners classes and how are they different? What other yoga styles are available? In fact ask what ever you want so you get a good idea of what your experience is likely to be well before you attend.

    Yoga and Exercise

    It's important to remember that while yoga can tone, flex and strengthen you it is not like other exercise. In fact one of the chief benefits of yoga is in its subtle elements of cultivating a sense of physical and mental awareness,  greater awareness and uses of the breath and  calming of the mind. One of the great things about yoga is that it is not really about personal development atall such as learning a foreign language or landscape painting. I'm not saying that these are not useful ways of improving your life. It's just that yoga is not really about this kind of improvement. Yoga is more of a journey of self discovery. Becoming more physically, emotionally and mentally aware with a view to balancing and harmonizing the quality of those three things to bring you a greater sense of well being often without you noticing it until it just actually happens.

    Do I need to meditate

    This is a common question of beginner yogis and the answer is probably no.Even though the great sage Patanjali who wrote the Yoga Sutras around 2,500 years ago, providing us with a great framework upon which to base our practice, and claimed the aim of yoga was to calm the disturbing patterns of the human mind ultimately using meditation, practitioners can achieve a whole lot of calmness and awareness without even getting to the meditation stage. They can do it by simply practising asana (postures), breathing and calming techniques and they will achieve a lot through the "back door of yoga".

    So in conclusion give yoga a try. Not if it's just your latest fad at getting fit and personally developing. Something that might see you through the summer. But do it if you want to take up an amazing journey of self enquiry that will transform the way you feel, the way you think and the way you understand your body. Do it if you want to be more open and peaceful. You may discover that yoga is not just for a season but can be a way of life. Finally, let me finish this with a brief anecdote: a middle aged NHS matron from a large training hospital once told me she took up yoga because for years working on hospital wings she came to notice that people who practiced yoga on a regular basis coped better with illness and recovered more quickly. That realisation inspired her to take up yoga as a way of life and inspired me to continue with my practice.

     

    Barry Todd (HathaYogaMan)

     

     

  2. freedomThis week we heard about yet another person who has given up a safe job with regular money to plunge into the depths of self-employment after trying to manage a job and what could only be described as a hobby which will now be her source of income.  This follows not long after Rachael left the confines of working in a salon to branching out with her own place.

    It is a brave step to take - we know this and it is not easy - we know this too and you work longer hours that you would for an employer - oh yes we know this.

    However, the mental freedom that you gain from being your own boss, creating your own business, using your many latent talents and discovering the need to learn even more are exciting, challenging and rewarding - we know this.  They can also be daunting and downright heart stopping scary when you enter the big bad world.

    Of course it all depends on how you look at it.

    It is very telling that during the peak years of the  recession more people than ever (at least in our circle) left well paid high pressured jobs and went it alone.  They decided that they could forego a few foreign holidays and camp in Ashworth Valley in the rain instead and believe it or not it can be just as good fun if you look at it in the right way.

    So it is about the way you look at things and when you look in a positive way you are open to opportunities that come your way.  However, when you look at it from a scary position than you see all the possible dangers and threats and miss the opportunities.

    Whether it is about leaving your job or about your approach to life, finding a partner the positive and opptomistic outlook is always best.

    Stopping this positive outlook are memories and learned behaviours from the past.  You feel guilty about enjoying your life, you believe life should be a struggle, youthink you don't deserve to be happy, you feel responsible for others.

    As the Froxen songs says 'Let it go'.  Be happy

    If you want to talk about some of these issues informally I offer free consultations so just emails for an appointment.

    Andrea Lowe
    Senior Hypnotherapist and trainer

     

  3. Zen is a perfect example of cafe culture.  We are a vegan and vegetarian cafe under our therapy centre, training academy and yoga studio.

    The people who come into our cafe are very special because they are part of a much bigger picture called serendipity. Serendipity means that there is no such thing as coincidence but that everything falls into place as opportunity.  You can choose to see it or you can choose to not notice. 

    We are so lucky that most of our customers in the cafe are 'seers'.  Many who come in are meat eaters (and we certainly don't serve meat) so they must be drawn by the undercurrent of serendipity.

    I am constantly amazed at how often someone meets a new friend and they have so much in common or are able to help each other so much one way or another.

    How many times do you see people in a cafe making conversation with strangers and getting into deep conversations about a common interest.

    Serendiptiy - don't you  just love it?

     

    Zen - 26

    We're open for serendipity experiences (oh and a great selection of home cooked dishes, our own blend herbal drinks, selection of fresh coffee (3 strengths) and good old fashioned leaf tea drinking from a selection of teas for the connoisseur.  Orange Pekoe seems to be very popular at the moment - a very velvety experience for the first cup followed by a strong bitter green tea taste for the second cup (in my humble opinion)

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  4. Actually quite a lot.  Without Marde Grass there would be no Pancake Tuesday.  The literal translation of Marde Grass is Tuesday fat and it was originally a day to fatten up with stodgy food stored  to prepare for the fasting of lent.

    As stodgy food slows you down it was  a time to develop patience and to prepare  for thoughtful reflection  the fasting period.

    Nowadays Marde Grass is a very different colourful celebration and pancake Tuesday is a lot healthier with lots of options for tasty treats rather than stodgy fill ups.

    So if you plan to come to our pancake celebration on Tuesday come as colourfully as you like and bring all your patience and thoughtful reflection as you wait for your tasty freshly made pancakes to be prepared for you.

    There are free activities for children too including a sample of Mindfulness for children which certainly fits in with the theme of the day.

    9th Feb just come for 11am - 7pm 

     

  5. Have you ever been to serendipity?

    brambley hedge

    Let me guide you there. 

    As soon as you walk into serendipity it feels like one of those magical enthralling places that captured your heart in story books from childhood, like Brambly Hedge and other favourites.  Those magical memories remain and stay with you in adulthood.

    Serendipity feels different  for everyone but for me it mmediately reminds me of beautiful illustrations of  wonderful little cosy homes hidden amongsts the roots of the trees.  As soon as I step through the door into serendipity I feel like I have stepped into a fariytale whisking me to the wonderful memories of those magical stories that are always there,  waiting to be accessed and brought to life once again.  Even adults deserve a little fairlytale magic.   Once you enter there are interesting corners of magic to explore and cosy  places to nestle down and relax. 

    Then all you have to do is relax and wait for serendipity to happen ... and it always does .... though you have to be patient and dedicated.  Ask all the people who have encountered 'coincidences' and got just what they needed in serendipity.

    Serendipity is a place called Zen

  6. If  you want to be taken through a rollacoaster of emotions, questions and opinions.  If you want to discover that you can't trust your own mind then read this book.

    The author is a lawyer and the book is about a lawyer defending an innocent man.... but is he.  The lawyer goes through twists and turns in the plot - questionsing her own decisions, unsure of her client.  But finally thinks she has the final proof she needs of his innocense.  She gets him off but that final knowing smile, should she take that as a heads up that shes been conned>

    Very well researed and accurate in detail as you would expect from a real life lawyer.

    Though provoking

    Author Frances Fyfield