Do you know what you want?
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It's coming up to that time of the year when many people make resolution for the New Year in an attempt to improve their lives.
But ..... do you really know what you want? If it involves the word 'more' then that's hard to define. For instance if you want more money then you need to define how much more otherwiise you may never be satisified as more could never end. What would you do with more money - pile it up in a corner? Give it away? Spend spend spend.. Would that satisfy you?
Really you need to know what the objective behind the wish is. So with the above example and exta £x would allow me to not worry about payments I have to make. I would be able to buy this and this and this that I have been wishing for etc.
So in actual fact it was never extra money that you wanted but a desire to feel secure and happy. That would be the focus for your resolution not the money which is only one of the means to getting it. Let life fill in the details, you just need a clear idea about the life you want deep within. You need to know what you need to make you happy.
Often it is nothing material at all. It is something within you that is unfulfilled. You and only you have the means to make that change. Nothing materialistic can do it for you. It can cover it up or ease the pain but it will not provide the solution.
For you it's just a matter of changing your perspecitve about your life.. It feels like pain now but that is only because it's the only way you have even known it to feel.
Changing your perspective can change your life.
Hypnotherapy and especially hypnoanalysis can help with that. The best Christmas present ever is freedom. Put it on your wish list now.
Andrea Lowe
Senior Hypnotherapist and Hypnoanalyst, NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapy Course Tutor